friday photos

I finally got around to decorating Xena's bathroom suite.



What it looks like from her perspective.





On another note, I have had a lot of questions on how Genghis is doing with little Xena around. Here are a few of the interactions they've had.

- When Xena is in her swing in the living room, Genghis will either A) grab the swing and vigorously rock her back and forth or B) go to the piano and play the pre-set "jazz organ" demo song, which is set to a sort of funk-calypso beat, for her listening pleasure.
- When Xena's pacifier is in sight, Genghis will either A) pluck it out of her mouth, B) attempt to stick it back into her mouth, C) try it out himself or D) all of the above.
- Genghis regularly checks in with Xena when she is hanging out in her bouncy chair by stroking her head and saying "sooooft".
- If Xena has been napping for a while, Genghis will look up at me and say "Xena? Xena?"* Today during her nap the door to her bathroom nursery was open. While my mom and I were commenting on how well Xena was napping just then, Genghis ran into her room and gave her an energetic wake up call.
- If Xena is wearing socks, Genghis will considerately remove them for her.
- Throughout the day, Genghis will repeat our family names - Mama, Daddy, and Xena. After each name I am supposed to tell him where each family member is (Mama is with Genghis. Daddy's at work. Xena is sleeping.)
- Sometimes if I'm not at home, Genghis will cry out for Mama, Mama, Mama. If that doesn't get results, he'll switch to Xena.
- Genghis walks around the house naming Xena's things - Xena's chair, Xena's bath, Xena's socks (laying discarded on the floor wherever he last pulled them off).

We are so proud (and surprised) at how welcoming and loving Genghis has been of little Xena. He knows she's a permanent part of the family, and he's very happy about that.

*Except for some reason he uses her real name instead of her blog name. Go figure.

someone please explain to me

what is with the last line in this list of features for diaper wipes?

flashlights and forts for a rainy day

On a rainy morning, we pulled out our largest blankets to construct a fort over our table and then crawled inside to explore the wonders of flashlights. This is another top of the list activity for being simple and easy to pull off with no prep beforehand.

Supplies:
Blankets
Table
Heavy books
Flashlight
Colors shirts or tissue paper (optional)

Activity:
Construct a fort over the table using blankets and heavy books to keep the blankets in place. Here's a photo, for reference.


(Okay, I won't patronize you anymore. You don't need me to tell you how to build a blanket fort. Do whatever you want for this step.)

Crawl inside with your toddler and some flashlights and have fun exploring.

Advanced version: Bring in a few colored shirts or tissue paper and put the flashlight in the shirts or under the paper and watch how it makes the colors glow. Talk about different colors. Perhaps explain the physics of luminosity.

What Actually Happened:
I build the fort - it was key to close up all the openings with blankets so it was totally dark inside. Genghis only crawled inside once I demonstrated how cool it was. We had two small flashlights, which he was completed enthralled by.

I snuck out and grabbed the "advanced version" shirts and tissue paper. Genghis was even more enthralled by the flashlight under the shirt. But he didn't quite have the fine motor skills to get the light in and out. He was a bit frustrated with that, and I, in turn, was a bit frustrated that what started out as a potentially wonderful independent play time turned into a mother-assisted play time. (Oops, did I admit to wanting less play time with my child out loud?)

Next time we'll probably just stick with the flashlights.


Trying so hard with the shirt. (Note: As I recall, we actually never got around to putting pants on Genghis the whole day. I think he counted that as a victory in the ongoing "I only want to be totally naked" battle.)


Without the flash, you can see Genghis's eerily glowing face on the left.

Happy Easter ... yah!

friday photos

Some photos from two weeks ago, when family was in town for Xena's blessing.


Genghis and Grandma.


Xena, Grandpa and Great-Grandma.


Genghis and Uncle Chris discussing cars.


Genghis and Uncle Sam, or "Yam" as Genghis says.


Genghis giving Xena a kiss.


Xena and Grandma. (Xena looks a bit like a pirate.)


Xena and Grandpa.

a simple color learning game

Genghis has been totally uninterested in color identification. So I was thrilled to find this super simple activity that actually got him saying colors - often, correctly. I love, love, love, how little supplies and set up are needed for this. Perfect for a quick, go-to game.

Supplies:
Colored construction paper (2-3 sheets per color)
Largish bowls

Activity:
Set out the paper and bowls. Together, tear up the paper and crumple it into balls. Sort the paper balls into different bowls, depending on the color of the ball. Direct toddler to pick up different colors and put them in appropriate bowls.



What actually happened:
Genghis couldn't quite tear the paper on his own (probably a good thing, considering the number of our books we keep at his level), but if I got it started for him he did pretty well. Same for crumpling the paper. He was very into putting the paper balls into various bowls, though not too concerned about matching the colors. However, for about 90 seconds, he listened to me talk about the names of the colors, repeated them back to me, and even identified some of the colors correctly without prompting. Success!

Also, he enjoyed walking around the room with the bowls on his head.

Video intended to show off his new color skills. Instead, just shows off his independent streak.

getting inventive with a toddler

Before Xena came into our life, Genghis and I often passed the morning time by going out to the library, museums, gardens, grocery stores, and the like. But now Xena often drops off to sleep in the morning and I feel less keen on packing two kids off on some new adventure.

So once Xena is down for a nap, I put away my list of chores and Genghis and I get creative with stay-at-home activities. This has turned out to be pretty fun, because he is just at the age where imagination, vocabulary, and fine(r) motor skills are all starting to take off.

Here are a few of our recent favorite activities. If I feel ambitious (which I don't, particularly, at the moment) I may try to make this a semi-regular feature on the blog.

Index Card Memory
Recently, my friend Janssen talked about playing Memory with her daughter, who is a smidgen older than Genghis. It had never occurred to me that Genghis might be ready for this level of intellectual activity. I put "Memory" on my list of things to buy, and then realized that if I bought it I'd also have to buy another plastic tub to start a game storage box, and then looked around at how many toys in plastic tubs we already had, and finally decided I didn't want to buy anything more just yet.

Instead, I drew simple shapes on index cards. Genghis quickly insisted that the square was a car and the circle an airplane, so the shapes turned into modes of transportation. He loved flipping the cards over and placing them on the ground again. A few times, he even got the "memory" part of the game (but that may have just been the law of large numbers at work).


Genghis and Xena Ride on the Airplane, Or How I Learned About "Fast" and "Slow"
We finally branched out from ball and snake with playdoh. I made Genghis an airplane, car, and slide out of playdoh and then shaped two little figures to represent Genghis and Xena. They rode on the slide and the airplane. With the airplane, we zoomed it around and practiced going fast and slow. Genghis preferred fast.

Bunny Goes Down the Slide
Abe gets credit for this one. While we were watching General Conference (8 hours of talks from our church in one weekend, streamed over the internet), he constructed a slide out of a shoe rack and a leaf from our table. Genghis rolled a ball, truck, and roll of tape down the slide. But he thought it was most fun to watch Bunny go down.